So I’m in Charlotte, NC for werk and y’all know me, as discussed in a previous MITLR session, I went ahead and changed my dating app location to Charlotte a couple of weeks before my arrival to get my dating line up started.
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Whewwww shat!!! That was a goodt Black American Read!!! What I wouldn't give to have been a fly in that restaurant!! Dodged a whole bullet with this one!!
You read him!!!
Whew Chile! First, I love your writing voice lol…so hilarious and Presactly like when you speak 😆
Also, reasons why I’m very careful in dating folks from elsewhere in the African Diaspora because the colonizer Stockholm Syndrome Anti Blackness can hit you smack between the eyes at unawares lol.
I’m first gen afro Caribbean as well and yeah… all of what he posited is a no for me as well. And I’m always proud of a sister than stands up to a man in his face and reads him for filth. The demure respectability politics of what’s lady like or feminine keep many men for knowing WTF is actually wrong with them and why they got unmatched on.