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The Crash of Asserting Yourself, Making Sound Adjustments & Later Feeling Bad About It.

There’s a certain pang one can feel when they feel they are disappointing or hurting someone else when they speak up for themself…

Nik’s ENM Dating Diary: When Your Date Has You Fawked Up & You Gotta Take ‘Em To Schewl

I don’t play that shit. I don’t play that shit. I don‘t play that shit. I will curse your ass out from a boot to a motherfawking slipper.

The Black Mother Wound Healing Recap

As Jennifer explained to us, EVERY Black woman has a Mother Wound regardless of what her relationship with her mother is like.

Nik’s ENM Dating Diary: What These Bishes Want From A Nagga! *Somebody Let Me Know….DAWG!!”

I’ve met the most pseudo monogamous men while monogamous and the most pseudo non-monogamous men while ethically non-monogamous.